ExtraCare’s Bridget is one example of someone who has embraced community in later life. She’s lived at Sunley Court for two years and calls the move “the best thing I ever did.” Here she and daughter’s Alyson and Corynda discuss her decision and what it means to them as a family.

For Bridget being at Sunley Court has meant the difference between loneliness and a renewed sense of community.

“I love life at Sunley Court. I love the friendship, and I feel safe—there’s always somebody there. I’ve made so many new friends, and now even three of my friends from outside are moving in because I told them how much I love it!”

Bridget spends her time leading craft classes, participating in community events, and even hosting “fridge raids” with neighbours where everyone brings surprise food for a communal evening picnic. There’s creativity, connection and perhaps most importantly a lot of laughter.

“It’s just lovely and everybody joins in… There’s loads to look forward to.”

“I’m a bit accident-prone,” Bridget shares. “Since I’ve been on my own, I’ve never felt this safe ever. When I fell and broke my nose, the team at Sunley really looked after me.”

And the benefits aren’t just felt by residents, but by families too. Bridget’s daughter’s Alyson and Corynda describe the transition from a family’s point of view.

For Alyson it felt good to know her mum was safe, she comments; “Mum was widowed ten years ago and doing less and less at home. Just two days after moving in, she called and said, ‘This was the best thing I’ve ever done, I wish I’d done it five years ago. Now, instead of not seeing anyone for days, she’s so busy we have to make appointments to visit! Knowing she’s safe, warm, and surrounded by people makes a huge difference. We don’t worry anymore, she has a new lease on life.”

The decision to move into a retirement village isn’t always easy but for many families, it turns out to be a turning point. Corynda shares: “At first, we felt guilty about encouraging the move. But now, it’s the best feeling to know she’s safe and happy. It was such an easy transition, and she’s taken to it like a duck to water.”

Bridget adds, “It’s not like an old people’s home. It doesn’t feel like that at all. You have all the benefits of support, but you’re living in your own independent space.”

“There’s a network of people here, we’re very welcoming to new people. We make them feel less alone. You’re getting older, and it’s so nice to be settled in your old age. I know I’m here till my time’s up and I wouldn’t want to be anywhere else.”